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Post by Alex Stall on Feb 12, 2009 0:54:15 GMT -4
Tonight I went to my Aunt's who was diagnosed with cancer over a year ago. To make a long story short, she will not be with us tomorrow. She took an extreme turn for the worst today and to be honest, it's tearing me apart.
In the past few days, since making my way to GM and Commissioner on the site, I've been dealing with people jumping me for a lot of stupid reasons and I am just warning you now.
If you have a problem, come to me in an orderly, polite way or prepare to get your head bitten off. I am not in the mood for the normal immature bullshit as usual and will not tolerate getting bitched at by 40 people over lame, nonsense reasons.
So to be perfectly clear, I will still be active on EVPW except for the day of the Funeral and the day after, but aside from that I will be here, doing my job and roleplaying. Just please, think twice before you yell at me over something, whine about anything or the likes.
I am sorry if I seem like a royal ass, but I bet most of you would be the same way if someone close to you was dying.
-JT
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Post by M BISON on Feb 12, 2009 1:11:10 GMT -4
Man, that's horrible. Best wishes for your family, and if anyone pisses you off feel free to vent to me on MSN.
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Post by Alex Stall on Feb 12, 2009 1:23:18 GMT -4
Thanks Rob, you're a great friend
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Post by Alex Stall on Feb 12, 2009 2:32:50 GMT -4
Thank you man, I really mean that.
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Post by Rhaps on Feb 12, 2009 7:34:08 GMT -4
I know it may sound silly but I know what you're going through. I've had two family members die from Cancer and its a horrible experience. I'm always here if you want to talk and my condolences go out to both you and your family.
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Post by Alex Stall on Feb 12, 2009 8:42:36 GMT -4
Thank you Rhaps, you've always been a great friend to me.
Update: Well folks..... Final Call was 2:03 am this morning. She passed away in her sleep with her family there with her, holding her husband's hand. She died with a smile on her face and no regrets in her heart. I will be inactive Friday and for a good deal of time on Saturday for the Visitation, Funeral and spending time with loved ones. I will be back and fully active on Sunday for the Pay-Per-View because this is my little escape from reality.
My Aunt was a believer in doing what you love and sticking to it, and this is one thing I love and do share with my family. My aunt even being one to congratulate me after my first match in GHW when I won my first title all the way up to now. She supported my love for creative writing and I know she'd be disappointed if I didn't go on to Abaddon's Pit and win that Imperial Title as Linette.
So thank you all for being here for me and know that yes, I am feeling a lot of pain right now. Loss is a bitch to deal with, I had my Step-Father die five years ago to Cancer and my Grandfather just a few years before that. I hate to say it's nothing new to me. My activity will fluctuate a bit for the next few weeks or even months, knowing I will probably find myself falling into fits of depression.
So just bear with me, my Aunt was a big part of my family, being the one to always make sure we got together regularly and kind of kept my family together.
Thank you all from the bottom of my heart. You've all been great friends to me throughout the time I've known you, some longer than others and some better friends than others but all in all, you've all given me a reason for being stronger than I was and a better person.
Thank you...
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Post by Ryan Hughes on Feb 12, 2009 12:43:37 GMT -4
It may be a bit late but, I give my greatest condolences to you and your family. I too have had family members die from cancer, including my father, so i kinda know what you are going through.
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Post by Alex Stall on Feb 12, 2009 12:48:20 GMT -4
Thank you Ryan, I know you also recently lost someone, we can help each other through the hard times. It's always nice to have friends during times like this.
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Post by Demon on Feb 12, 2009 17:35:30 GMT -4
I have never lost any of my family from Cancer, but I do know what it feels like to lose a loved one. Back when I was 7 my father died of a stroke, so I want you to know that I'm there for you man. If you need to talk, I'll be on MSN.
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Post by Dominik Santiago on Feb 12, 2009 23:46:14 GMT -4
Lost my baby sister 4 years ago to a rare cancer. I know how you feel Alex. Best wishes to your family and hang in there.
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Post by Evan Fallen Angel on Feb 14, 2009 12:39:40 GMT -4
My Aunt oma ment the world to me when i was a little tike...It sucks not having her here today
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Post by Scar on Feb 14, 2009 17:28:13 GMT -4
my half-sister(most of you should know her) Alyssa was meant to have a life-changing disease. Me and my family were so heart-broken when we found out. It meant she could die at any minute if we didnt feed her every hour or two. It was not contagious but we still grieved. we spent all the time in the world with her from when she was born to now. But the best part was, God blessed us with a miracle. So many of my fellow RPers Prayed for her. So many of our Friends prayed for her. So many of our Nurses prayed for her. So many of US prayed for her. God answered everybodys prayers and helped us out. He blessed her with a normal life, he blessed her with beauty, he blessed her. I may not have many family members that i knew a lot dead. But I know how it feels when you know/think that you are going to lose somebody. If Alyssa died I would have been a lot more grieved. But I still know how it feels and I just wanted to let you know. It may be a bit late but I am here for you aswell. Even though we werent friends I am here for you.
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